Archive for June, 2011

How to Know if You’re Bullied and Abused

Sunday, June 26th, 2011

Many coaching clients call me saying, “Since he didn’t beat me physically, I didn’t realize I was being bullied and abused.  At least, not until I read your articles.  Is it too late for me?  Can you help me?”  Of course, since you’ve made it this far, it’s not too late, although it may take [...]

During Divorce: Six Things to Tell Kids

Sunday, June 19th, 2011

During the typical arguing and fighting leading up to deciding to divorce and during the divorce process itself, what should and shouldn’t you tell the kids?  When you think there’s still a chance to salvage the marriage, should you tell them nothing is wrong so they don’t worry?  Should you re-assure them that you and [...]

How to Destroy Confidence, Self-Esteem; Create Doubt, Insecurity

Sunday, June 12th, 2011

The best ways to destroy a child’s confidence and self-esteem, and to create an adult riddled with self-doubt, insecurity and negative self-talk are: Relentless beatings. These instill fear and terror.  Children can become convinced they’re always wrong and the price for mistakes is high; maybe even maiming or death.  The result can be adults who’re [...]

Begging Doesn’t Stop Domestic Bullying and Abuse

Sunday, June 5th, 2011

We don’t need more research and statistics to know that domestic violence is a travesty and must be stopped.  For example, watch the graphic five minute video about the effects of that brutality and the work of one safe house helping women and children.  Domestic violence is obvious – you can see the results of [...]